As we approach Rosh Hashana here is a good question to
ask yourself:
If you were able to have a glimpse of G-d’s innermost
thoughts what would they look like? (Answer below. Please
don’t peek).
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Another year has passed. As can be said of every year:
many good things as well as many sad events have transpired.
People have died, and new children born. Some have married
and found love and bliss; others have experienced loss and
heartbreak.
The cynic may conclude, paraphrasing Ecclesiastes: A generation
has passed, a generation has arrived, and there is nothing
new under the sun. Only the names and props have changed.
The faithful will, however, add that nothing is new “under
the sun”, but “over the sun,” in the higher/inner
world of spirit, new energy is always brewing.
As a new year approaches and a new and unprecedented energy
is about to enter our lives, let us all rise a bit above
“the sun,”
The choice is ours: Will we remain stuck breathing “recycled
stale air” resulting from being trapped in the “greenhouse”
of our tedious lives “beneath the sun.” Or will
we transcend the earthy stratosphere and live dynamic, passionate
lives.
Boredom, the monotony of the daily grind, is one of our
greatest enemies. The vacuum that a monotonous life creates
is extremely susceptible; desperate for something, anything,
that will relieve the quotidian.
The dilemma was addressed by Moses over three millennia
ago.
One of the most compelling and germane Biblical verses
is in this week’s Torah portion, which we always read
before Rosh Hashana. Moses, delivering his last words to
the Jewish nation, dramatically tells them: “The mandate
that I am prescribing to you today is not beyond or distant
from you. It is not in heaven…It is not over the sea…
It is something very close to you, in your mouth and in
your heart, that you may do it.”
What exactly is Moses saying? Why would we think that the
mandate is “distant” and beyond us? The answer
becomes quite apparent when we look at our own lives: Living
in a mundane world, inundated and consumed by material needs,
the universal search for deeper purpose can be quite daunting.
Where do we find direction? How do we access spirituality
when we are surrounded by narcissism? Can we maintain higher
integrity in a corrupt world? Is spiritual passion possible
in a pedestrian life?
The spiritual mandate can seem very distant and inaccessible
to us. It can appear difficult, something relegated to “heaven,”
which we can access only when we climb the mountain, but
not in our lives on earth, or across “the sea,”
but not in our local lives.
As a true leader, sensitive to the needs of people, Moses
anticipated this dilemma, and therefore stated, days before
he passed away: Know that the spiritual mandate is not difficult,
distant or beyond you. It is “very close” –
close as in accessible and relevant – very close to
you and your life.
These words resonate through the ages as the single most
compelling challenge in life: How to access the spiritual
path? How to live a meaningful life?
Indeed, the classic Tanya (authored by the Torah giant,
Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi, 1745-1812) is based on this
verse, “to explain clearly how it is exceedingly near.”
Tanya – the Bible of Chassidic thought – lays
out a comprehensive psycho-spiritual outline how to actually
discover the profound relevance in the Torah mandate.
If spiritual relevance is the challenge of history, today
it is especially acute.
In this writer’s opinion, two major crises loom above them
all and will only continue to haunt us: Divisiveness and
education.
Conflict plagues every segment of society. From global
confrontations considered to be a “clash of civilizations”
to the accelerated battle between faith and atheism. Within
religion itself, and within each individual religion, irreparable
rifts separate denominations of every garden variety, cultivating
distrust, discrimination and often worse.
Things are not much better on the personal and interpersonal
front. How many people do you know that you can honestly
say are at peace with them selves? One out of two marriages
fail. And how many are failing without a legal divorce?
The story of personal dissonance (I’m afraid to say:
misery) consuming our lives is reflected in the colossal
sales of books and products (healthy or unhealthy) offering
wholesomeness and inner peace, coupled with the billions
spent on therapy – is anybody not in therapy today?
Not to mention the multi-billion industry of self-medication
(literal or figurative).
The plague of divisiveness is especially glaring against
the backdrop of technological unity we are experiencing
in the increasingly shrinking global village. With all the
advances in communications – instantaneous connection
to anyone anywhere anytime – are we actually communicating
better? Is there more trust between people?
The second crisis is in the area of education, namely the
values taught in our schools and homes. The best education
will teach a student the skills to earn a respectable income.
But what about life skills? How to love and be loved. How
to be a giver and not just a taker. How to fulfill your
life’s mission and leave a permanent mark, rather
than just survive, entertain yourself and perpetuate the
temporal. These lessons are almost completely dependent
on circumstantial factors – a good family (and that
too may not be enough), bumping into the right mentor, often
hitting rock bottom and learning from the upturn of life’s
curve.
With the average American child annually spending 900 hours
in school and nearly 1023 hours in front of a TV, watching
an average 8000 murders on TV before finishing elementary
school – what will counter the balance?
These crises of divisiveness and education are especially
acute in the Jewish community.
Strange as it may sound, the comforts of our modern lives
not only don’t bring us together, they actually divide
us further.
The good news is that both challenges are rooted in the
same place: A lack of soulfulness.
When we see ourselves as mere material creatures we have
no other recourse than drawing “lines in the sand”
that define our boundaries and differences. The cardinal
law of matter, after all, is that each of its pieces occupies
its own space, distinct from others. However, when we recognize
our spiritual commonality, then we are more like limbs of
one organism, fundamentally and inherently connected, each
complementing and depending on the other.
Same with education: The only force that will infuse our
children (and ourselves) with higher values and empower
them to face the challenges of a material world is not more
materialism, but (surprise: what is the opposite of matter?)…
spirituality: A deep sense of the soul within each of us
and the mission of the soul’s journey in this life.
No child on earth should be deprived of the need to discover
meaning in life. Every boy and girl must know to ask the
question, ingrained in his or her psyche from the youngest
age: What is my calling?
Spirituality has to be become an essential ingredient in
the education of every child, and an absolute prerequisite
study for any aspiring leader, teacher or clergyperson.
The message of the soul is the single most relevant message
you will ever hear – and it is renewed each Rosh Hashana,
the collective birthday of the human race:
You are indispensable. Every one of us was created in
the Divine Image with an exclusive imprint, unique to you
and you alone. Only you can fulfill your role and play your
special music. And the whole world apprehensively waits
– and cannot be complete – until you actualize
your life’s calling and make your unique mark and
contribution.
* * *
Now, back to the initial question: What do G-d’s
innermost thoughts look like?
One century ago, in the year 1907, the great Rebbe Rashab,
discussed this very topic in the conclusion of his classic
Hemshech
Samach-Vav (the series of 61 discourses he delivered
in 1905-1908).
Samach-Vav explains that the Divine essence is hidden from
view and from every form of expression. Yet in creating
existence G-d did reveal Himself. Different aspects of the
universe manifest and express different aspects of the Divine
personality.
Like it is with any structure, there are the means and
the ends. Even though a building may have a particular purpose,
it still is comprosed of sections and rooms that are peripheral
but necessary for the function of the entire entity. The
primary objective of a library, for instance, is to house
books. Yet, the library building will have lobbies, doors,
halls, offices, cafeterias, restrooms and other areas that
all serve as means and secondary roles to support the main
function of the building.
The same is with our own lives: Whatever our primary mission
in life may be, we also have many peripheral activities
necessary to survive and fulfill our goals: Eating, sleeping
grooming, shopping, exercising and entertaining. (Actually,
except for rare instances, the means consume most of the
time of our days).
This is all a metaphor for the Divine: The large material
universe is the elaborate stage upon which the primary purpose
of existence plays itself out, and the human being is the
central character charged with the mission to fulfill this
purpose: To transform the physical world into a Divine abode.
The “means” – all the props on the grand stage of the universe
– are considered to be created through Divine speech, which
is detached from its source and communicates the message
to an entity outside of itself. When you direct workers
to do a job for you, the workers only hear your verbal instructions,
the immediate needs of the small picture, without necessarily
knowing or appreciating your innermost thoughts and objectives.
Thought, on the other hand, expresses your inner goals
and objectives – the big picture. The most intimate
dimension of Divine thought is reflected in the creation
of the human being. This is the meaning of the statement
that the human is created in the Divine Image: Though every
fiber of existence was created by G-d and therefore in some
way reflects elements of the Divine “personality,”
they are only “means.” But the Divine Image
– the big picture – manifests in the human –
the primary objective and end purpose of it all.
Rosh Hashana celebrates this Image.
So, what do G-d’s innermost thoughts look like?
They look like you and me. You are G-d’s expression
of His innermost thoughts,
And what is G-d thinking about right now?
About you.
I don’t know about you, but when I think of myself as just
a piece of ancient, evolved bacteria, I don’t feel that
good about myself. It makes me feel cold and detached, from
myself and from everyone around me. When I think that I
look like G-d’s thoughts, engraved in His Image, it makes
me feel warmer, more in touch – belonging, nurtured and
embraced.
Now that we know what G-d’s thoughts look like, maybe it’s
time to ask: What do our thoughts look like?
Imagine if you were able to access your deepest thoughts
and then build something accordingly, what would it look
like?
* * *
As we approach the New Year, I want to extend to you my
personal blessings for a sweet and healthy year.
I also want to take this opportunity to thank all of you
who have sent me your kind wishes and blessings for the
New Year. We are told that all those that bless, shall be
blessed. May your blessings be fulfilled many times over
in your life.
May you have a year of love and peace, a year of marriage
and joy, a year of healthy children and nachas, a year of
material and spiritual success, a year of health and wealth,
a year of life with purpose. Those that need special blessings
in health or other matters, may G-d see what you need and
fulfill it in the fullest measure. Above all, may we all
have a year of global peace and redemption.