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Abandonment and Reconciliation
Seven Weeks Toward Renewal
by Simon Jacobson
August 8, 2002
Its just two weeks since I returned from
Jerusalem, the lonely city that Jeremiah so sadly describes.
Oh, how she sits alone... I return to New York,
a city that was broken nearly one year ago on September 11.
As I think about it, I realize that New York, and all cities
of the world, have always been broken; they were just unaware
of it. Jerusalem on the other hand, was and is always aware.
You see, what is whole and what is broken is not
determined by the naked eye. There are many things that on the
surface seem so complete, yet beneath they are utterly corrupt.
Being complete means being seamless. It means being connected
to yourself, to your essence. If you are complete on one level
but not on others, you are really broken. If you feel whole
on the surface, but your inside is not connected to your outside,
you are not whole at all. You are masquerading, playing a game.
This world is a broken one unless we connect it
with its higher purpose. Our lives are broken our cities
shattered unless we connect our outer life with our inner
one. They always called New York the city that never sleeps.
But just as a business is broken if it loses sight of its mission
statement, New York City (the epitome of cities) is really asleep
if its outer noise and its 24 hour vivacity is
disconnected from its soul.
Thats what you feel in New York since September
11, only amplified by the shakeup of Wall Street. We feel how
lost we are, how far we have wandered away with all our
prosperity and life in the fast lane -- from our souls. New
York, America and the entire world needed 9/11 to recognize
the 911 (emergency) of our tenuous existence. Jerusalem was
always aware of our existential fragility and uncertainty.
Jerusalem is comprised of two words:
Yirah-Shalom, complete awe. Being the center of
the universe, Jerusalem like the central cosmic nervous
system was the first to become aware of how broken the
world is without its soul connection. The Holy Temple was destroyed
and Jerusalem was left barren and lonely because the world had
disconnected from its purpose.
Nothing is as complete as a broken heart,
Chassidim say. Because in a broken world the most complete thing
is recognizing that we are broken. Denying that truth and convincing
ourselves that we are complete when we are not, is the most
incomplete thing possible.
As my mind keeps juxtaposing Jerusalem and New
York, my imagination begins to drift and I remember a story
The house is in flames. Families shattered. So
many lives lost. The man of the house has left and abandoned
his family.
If you are the one in pain you feel a profound
loneliness. If you are only a witness, but filled with empathy,
your heart breaks for all the senseless suffering. For all the
oozing layers of anguish.
Sensing their pain, the husband appoints a messenger.
Go console my wife and family, he tells the courier.
Their home has been destroyed. My wife sits alone and
needs comforting.
The wife is not consoled.
The husband sends a second distinguished messenger
and yet a third. Still, to no avail. He sends all his best messengers,
but the wife remains unconsoled.
Why have you forsaken me? Why have you forgotten
us, the wife cries out.
The messengers return and share with the man the
grief of his abandoned wife and family.
Finally, the husband himself appears and comforts
his wife and family.
But after all the loss, simple comforting is not
enough. With each passing week, the comfort grows deeper, as
the healing process intensifies.
Finally, after six weeks of comforting, the woman
and her family rejoice with their renewed hope.
They are then ready to enter a new stage of rebirth
and renewal.
This is the story of the Seven Weeks of Comfort
(sheva dnechemta) the present
period in time, as related in the haftorahs of these seven weeks.
Following the destruction of the Temple and the Three
Weeks of Affliction, come the Seven Weeks of Comfort,
in which the people are consoled and comforted for their great
losses.
G-d first sends His messengers, the prophets,
to console Jerusalem and the people. Nachamu Nachamu Ami,
- Comfort, comfort my people
speak to the heart of Jerusalem
(haftorah of week one).
But Zion said (in haftorah of week two):
G-d has forsaken me; My G-d has forgotten me. Zion is
not comforted by the consolation of the prophets.
The messengers return and tell G-d (in haftorah
of week three): Afflicted, storm tossed, one is not consoled
by our comforting words.
G-d then replies (in week four): Anochi
Anochi hu menachemchem, - I, I am He who comforts you.
Not messengers, but I yes I myself comfort you.
Why? Because the Torah says that if a fire gets out of
control
the one who started the fire must make restitution
(Exodus 22:5). Since G-d is the one that started the fire
that destroyed the Temple, G-d Himself comes to comfort on the
loss (Pesikta Rabsi, 30).
And G-d continues (in the haftorah of week five)
as the comfort progressively grows more powerful (see
Tosafot, Megillah 31b): Sing barren one, you who have
not given birth. Break into a song and cry aloud
for the
children of the abandoned are more numerous than the children
of the married
Enlarge the place of your habitat
for
you will expand abroad to the right and to the left, until your
descendants possess the nations and populate the desolate cities.
Do not fear, for you will not be ashamed
You will forget the shame of your youth and the reproach of
your widowhood
For your Creator is your husband
The Holy of Israel is your Redeemer. He will be called the G-d
of the whole earth. For G-d called you as a wife abandoned and
grieved in spirit. Can a wife of youth be rejected? Says your
G-d. For a brief moment I forsook you, but I will gather you
with great compassion. In an outburst of wrath, for a moment
I hid my face from you; but with everlasting kindness I will
have compassion on you.
Then G-d continues, with an even greater consolation
the vision of the worlds Redemption: Arise,
shine for your light has come, and G-d glory has risen upon
you. For, behold, darkness will cover the earth and thick darkness
the peoples, but G-d will arise over you and His glory will
be seen upon you. Nations will come to your light, and kings
to the brightness of your rising
Aliens will build up your walls
The
sons of your oppressors will come bending to you, and all who
despised you will bow down at your feet. They will call you,
The city of G-d, the Zion of the Holy one of Israel.
Though you were forsaken and hated with no one passing through
you, I will make you an eternal majesty
Violence will no longer be heard in your
land, neither desolation nor destruction within your borders
Your sun will no longer set, not will your
moon wane. For G-d will be your everlasting light, and your
days of mourning will be ended.
Your people will all be righteous; they
will possess the land forever; the branch of My planting, the
work of My hands
The smallest will become a thousand,
and the least a mighty nation; I, G-d, will hasten in its time.
When the people hear these words of comfort, they
reply (in the seventh and last haftorah of the Seven Weeks):
I will greatly rejoice in G-d, my soul will exult in my
G-d, for He clothed me with the garments of salvation
For Zions sake I will not keep silent,
and for Jerusalems sake I will not be still, until her
righteousness shines forth like radiance
The nations will
see your righteousness. And all the kings your glory
O Jerusalem, I have set watchmen on your
walls. They will never be silent day or night
Behold G-d
has proclaimed to the end of earth: Say to the daughter of Zion:
Behold, your salvation comes
They will call them The
Holy People, G-ds redeemed; and you will be called
Sought Out, a city not forsaken.
Who is this that comes from Edom
In all their affliction He was afflicted
In
His love and pity He redeemed them; He lifted them up and carried
them through all the years.
Are than any better words for our times? Are there
any more comforting words we can tell families shattered by
todays terrorist attacks?
Initially I was going to cite only a brief verse
or two from these seven comforting Haftorahs. But as I began
to write, I was amazed yet again by the glaring relevance of
these verses. Especially in the last two of the seven weeks,
which respectively discuss the retribution and transformation
of Ishmael (Midian, Ephah, Sheba, Kedar, Nebaioth, Tarshish,
Lebanon) and Edom (Esau) for the devastation they brought to
the world.
As we approach the first anniversary of September
11, as the confrontation between Ishmael and Edom, with Israel
in middle, continues to accelerate, the Seven Weeks of Comfort
and the resounding words of the prophets have
never been so relevant.
These weeks that lead us into the New Year; the
Seventh Week is the last one before Rosh Hashana. We read these
words of comfort following destruction as we enter the month
of Elul, when Moses ascended Sinai for the third and final time,
to prevail upon G-d to forgive the people. And prevail he would
forty days later, when he descends with the Second Tablets:
A testimony to the renewal after the sin of the Golden Calf
and the shattering of the First Tablets.
So, instead of writing my own interpretations,
what could be better than to quote the actual words of Isaiah,
which speak for themselves.
Go ahead, read them for yourself and tell me what
you think
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