Yitro: Beauty or the Beast?


Reality Check: After 3336 Years How Far Are We from Sinai?

With the war in Israel and Gaza escalating and anti-Semitism rearing its ugly head, we are reminded in this week’s Torah portion of events that shaped our civilized world, helping us reclaim our human mandate, and wage war against those forces that wish to defile the dignity of our sacred lives, and destroy the fabric of our society and the values we cherish.

3336 years ago Sinai introduced civilization to this world. It took over three millennia for that mandate to spread across the globe. Today humanity stands at a crossroads: Will we embrace the beauty of Sinai or the beast that is borne from distorted faith?


As gruesome attacks continue on innocent men, women and children, all in the name of religion, we humans — the human race — ought, nay, must, look at ourselves and ask: how have we come to this? And what can we do to change the state of affairs?

As decent people we are obligated to get to the bottom of this cancer, and do whatever it takes to eradicate it. Our generation will be judged by what we did or did not do at this critical juncture in history.

The assault of militant Islam on the collective human race — by now everyone recognizes that it has clearly crossed all boundaries, targeting everyone from American, Japanese, Jordanian, Muslim, Christian, Russian, Chinese — is nothing less than a declaration of war on mankind. Why should it not be considered World War III?

Though it is being fought in very different ways, often without a defined battlefield, with no clear front lines and boundaries, without the attack on entire cities or countries and thousands of people at a time, it nonetheless is an attack on entire civilization and way of life. And in many ways far more challenging than the Axis in the previous World Wars, where the enemy and its objectives were defined, their location was clear; we knew whom to target. Those wars were fought in particular locations, not directly affecting, for example, the US mainland.

Today on the other hand, the enemy is concealed, and its threat crosses all boundaries. Terrorist attacks have happened across the globe, and in random fashion. And the threat of terrorism has disrupted life. Just take air flight as an example.

Today’s war is having a slow bleeding impact and insidiously eroding the security and confidence of the free world.

Complicating matters further — far far further — is the religious crusade behind today’s war. Religion frightens most of the Western world, and certainly confuses even the faithful. How could anyone behave so savagely in the name of their God?! How could anyone so mercilessly take the life of G-d’s children, people created by G-d?! Where is the compassion and the kindness faith advocates?!

What is even more disconcerting is that with every atrocity the ante is lowered and we become more desensitized to the harsh realities occurring around us. And that may be the worst consequence — and conquest — of modern-day terrorism: It has lowered our standard for civility. We have begun to find terrorism “acceptable.” Like an abused wife who becomes so detached that she denies (or minimizes) her husband’s beatings, the carnage has tragically become so routine, so common, that we just dismiss it. Instead of outrage and anger, we chalk it up to just “another day” in the Middle East.

Only problem is that it no longer is isolated to the Middle East. It began in Israel. As in so many historical battles, Israel and the Jewish People — like a lightning rod or the proverbial miner’s canary — seem to always be at “center stage.” But unlike Vegas — where “what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas” — nothing that happens in Israel stays in Israel. An attack on Jews has always ended up in being an attack on all people. Case in point: Hitler and the Nazis.

This is far beyond double standard. And that standard keeps dropping, like a horror movie that ceases to horrify.

Just imagine what would happen if a group of Jews would have beheaded a Muslim, and publicized a videotape of the event. Would the world be quiet?! If a group of Americans would do that would everyone be silent?!

Every Tom, Dick and Harry – in Europe and beyond – would be clamoring for denials and protests from the Jewish community, to disavow any connection, any endorsement of such a horrendous act, and to investigate the atrocity and punish those responsible.

That is why it is so disturbing to witness a world so surprisingly silent in face of these Muslim crimes against humanity. Where is the natural public outcry you would expect when seeing such an assault on the sanctity of life and all that we value?

How laughable is it that instead of taking on the greatest challenge of our times — World War III — the headlines are questioning Israel and its right to defend itself?

Why is the world not joining together, looking at this siege straight in the eyes, and waging full scale war?

How many beheadings, burnings, shootings, massacres, have to take place (G -d forbid) for us to wake up and take on the enemy?

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What do we do?

What do wise people do at times like this, when our very humanity is under attack with no public uproar, and our “leaders” seem lost — and especially when all this is happening in the name of religion?

They go back to the drawing board for a reality check.

At times like this the first step we must take is to return to our point of departure, to our collective “mission statement:” to define the very core of our humanity and freedom, what makes us human in the first place and what is our mandate and purpose in life.

When a world has gone crazy, and fires are burning out of control, when people are wantonly killing other in the name of faith, the logical and vital thing to do is to retrace our steps to the roots and origins of faith in the first place, as well as the roots of our freedoms and inalienable human rights. And then, by studying the contrast between the roots of faith and how it devolved into distorted faith, we come to understand what needs correction and how to correct it.

Those roots go back 3336 years ago to Sinai. The single most important event in history occurred at Sinai: the human race received its mandate how to build a civilized world.

This great gift was given for all of mankind, however at the time the nations of the world rejected it. As our sages tell us that the children of Esau and the children of Ishmael both were offered the Torah and they rejected it after seeing that they could not live up to its laws, namely the prohibition on murder, theft and sexual transgressions.

It would take over 1000 years for the children of Esau – the Roman/Western/Christian world – to begin embracing the Sinai principles. It would take another 700 years for the children of Ishmael – the Muslim/Arab world – to do the same.

Yet, even after the birth of Christianity and Islam both would struggle with these principles and wreak global havoc in the process. For centuries Christians terrorized the world in the name of their religion. The Crusades, the Inquisitions, the pogroms are a few examples of the awful horror the Christians inflicted in their search to eradicate so-called heresy. Only in the last few hundred years has Christianity been tamed.

Islam too has had periods of aggression, now rearing its ugly head and terrorizing the world.

The bottom line is that the children of Ishmael are still struggling with the message given at Sinai.

What was it at Sinai that the children of Esau and Ishmael rejected, and what is its message today that they need to embrace?

Two major revolutions took place at Sinai.

First and foremost Sinai declared that G-d gave us freedom. The Ten Commandments begin with the statement: “I am your G-d who delivered you from [the bondage in] Egypt.” The sages explain that Egypt in Hebrew (Mitzrayim) refers to all forms of slavery and confinement, anything that inhibits human freedom.

Then the remaining nine Commandments declared at Sinai define the system that we must build to maintain our freedom and construct a civilized universe (“Thou shall not murder,” “Thou shall not steal,” etc.)

The opening of the Bible (Torah) formalized at Sinai states that the human being was created in the Divine Image. By this virtue each of us has unalienable rights. Once that axiom is in place then we have the solid foundation upon which all law and order stands: The Divine authority that has endowed us all with fundamental freedom and with a moral system by which to live.

Take away the bedrock of the first commandment, all else inevitably falls. With no Creator imbuing us with absolute freedom and defining for us a blueprint for life, all morality becomes arbitrary and relative. Case in point: The Nazis defied “though shall not murder” only because they first defied the first commandment of accepting G-d Who gave us all life and freedom. Instead, they chose to “play G-d” and arbitrarily decide who has a right to live and who not.

That is the first Sinai revolution: The bestowal of freedom on all human beings.

To appreciate this revolutionary message one need only look at human history: Until a few hundred years ago basic human rights that we take today for granted simply were not respected in virtually every country in the world! Monarchs, despots, religious authorities ruled in totalitarian regimes that controlled every aspect of their subjects’ lives.

Notwithstanding all history’s “growing pains,” at Sinai the universe received the mandate of freedom and the blueprint of civilization. 3336 years ago Sinai set in motion a series of events that would change the world forever, and continues to impact our lives today.

It would take three millennia before Sinai would begin to breed countries that would embrace its message in their system of government. In the 18th century, the United States as well as many European countries, began to champion the fundamental principles of Sinai: All people are created equal with inalienable rights and freedoms.

In the last three centuries freedom has continued to spread, to the point that Freedom House, which ranks countries on a scale of free and unfree, places 144 of the world’s 195 countries (74%) in the free or partially free category, with 51 (26%t) rated not free.

The second revolution that took place at Sinai was even greater than the first:

Before Sinai there was an impenetrable rift between heaven and earth, between matter and spirit. An invisible wall separated between the transcendental and the material. A decree, a schism separated between above and below. “That which was above could not descend below, and that which was below could not ascend above.”

At Sinai the world changed. Heaven was unplugged. Sinai opened a door, never again to be closed, that allows mortals in a material world to become Divine. For the first time the human race was given the opportunity to bridge heaven and earth – to fuse spirit and matter. It gave us the power to spiritualize the material, and to make our lives sacred, not just ethical.

This was no small event.

Philosophers, thinkers, theologians and lay people have all always asked the eternal question: How high can a human being reach? Are we humans just sophisticated beasts, with limited potential? Can we ever reach heaven and beyond or bring heaven down to earth? Can we integrate spirituality into our material lives? Can we fuse the finite and the infinite?

The fact is that matter and spirit are in a perpetual struggle. Narcissism, greed, corruption are staples of life. When we look at ourselves each of us knows that we often feel that “I exist and nothing else,” to the detriment of others. When this feeling becomes extreme it can destroy lives of those around us. On the other hand, we also have a spirit inside of us. We have the power to live noble lives, filled with dignity and selflessness.

So we have an inevitable clash. Matter by its very nature is selfish. Spirit is selfless. No wonder that people have always speculated whether these two worlds can meet, let alone merge.

In general we find two approaches evolving in history: Asceticism and immersion. One states that in order to experience spirit we must separate ourselves from the material tentacles of life, and “climb the mountain” to meditate and become absorbed in a higher reality. Basically, one must deny the material life. An extreme version of this would be the ascetic life. To achieve the sacred the material life must be compromised. The infinite may be reached, but only by denying the finite.

The other extreme is that we cannot really reach heaven. We must live ethically, build healthy homes and workplaces, and find spirit in limited ways within our limited lives. Because we are essentially mortal creatures, with inherent selfishness or even evil, we cannot expect anything more than the best an earthy creature can achieve. A variation of this includes the ability of achieving salvation but not through our own efforts but by embracing something beyond us. The infinite is not integrated into our own personal lives.

Sinai opened the door of a third option. Sinai created an interface that bridged heaven and earth, giving us the power to integrate matter and spirit, utterly and completely, without compromising one or the other. The finite can become one with the infinite; matter one with spirit; the sacred one with the secular. Briefly, because G-d is neither spirit nor matter, He gave us the power to completely integrate the two.

This third Sinai option, however, did not come easily. The nations of the world could not accept – nor understand – how one can bridge the two worlds. As limiting as the first two options may be, they seem simpler, while the Sinai option requires a continual straddling of the thin line between matter and spirit. They therefore rejected the Torah at the time. Even the Jewish people did not reach Sinai effortlessly. Twenty-six generations of hard work, culminating with the terrible Egyptian slavery, was necessary before the people would be ready for Sinai.

This struggle between heaven and earth has many manifestations, including the battle that we so often have witnessed between religion and secularism. If you are a firm believer how do you deal with the secular world? According to the two above-mentioned options you either have to wage a holy war against the secular, or your basically embrace the secular with limited sanctity.

That is why Sinai came after much hard work, and why it would take thousands of years to begin integrating Sinai’s power into global affairs.

Therein lies the essential root of the religious wars waged throughout history. Recognizing secular heresy as an enemy, the Christians and later the Muslims, engaged in aggressive battles with the forces they perceive as threatening.

These battles actually began in the home of Abraham. Abraham, father of all nations, was the one that began the process, which was consummated at Sinai, of discovering and embracing the method of integrating the Divine and the mundane. Yet this effort encountered many challenges, including the difficulties with his son Ishmael. “He [Ishmael] will be a wild man. His hand will be against everyone, and everyone’s hand will be against him” (Genesis 16:12). It came to a point that Ishmael had to be banished from Abraham’s home.

This battle only intensified in the home of Isaac, son of Abraham, in the struggle between the twin brothers, Esau and Jacob. “Two nations are in your womb. Two governments will separate from inside you. The upper hand will go from one nation to the other. The greater one will serve the younger.” The brothers are diametrically different characters. Esau is a “skilled hunter, a man of the field.” “Jacob was a wholesome man, who sat in the tents” – a scholar who dwelled in the tents of study.

The battle between Esau and Jacob represents the battle between the material and the spiritual, a struggle that would only be resolved at the end of times.

What was the core of Ishmael and Esau’s difficulties, one that would later cause their children to reject the Torah, while the children of Jacob were embracing it?

Chassidic texts explain that the problem was rooted in balance. Ishmael (son of Abraham) was an archetype of abundant chesed (love) without the discipline of gevurah (judgment and discretion). Esau (son of Isaac) was an extreme of gevurah without the sensitivity of chesed.

Jacob, by contrast, was tiferet. Tiferet is beauty – harmony within diversity. Tiferet has the power to fuse love and discipline into one symmetrical unit. Tiferet possesses this power by introducing a third dimension – the dimension of truth, which is neither love nor discipline and therefore can integrate the two. Truth is accessed through selflessness: rising above your ego and your predispositions, enabling you to realize truth. Truth gives you a clear and objective picture of yours and others’ needs.

Jacobs’ children were educated with this Tiferet balance. They thus were ready for Mattan Torah, to receive the Torah at Sinai, which is called Tiferet. This is why we don’t find the Jewish people embarking on any religious war against heretics, or converting the nations of the world to Judaism. Conversion is actually dissuaded in Jewish law. When you are a person of Tiferet – secure in your own beliefs; aware that all humans were created in the Divine image, and one need not be Jewish to serve G-d; maintain a perfect equilibrium between love and discipline; absolutely confident that the sacred and the secular can be integrated with the Divine, and that this integration will come to fruition; lacking any fear that evil may be more powerful than good – then you can maintain the highest standard of spiritual integrity without resorting to killing or terrorizing others to conform to your beliefs.

Ishmael and Esau lacked this balance. Unbridled love and untempered discipline, even if they are driven for a good cause, ultimately become aggressive forces of destruction. Too much undisciplined love spoils a child and can create a monster, like too much rain that floods and destroys the fields. Unlimited judgment and severity, without underlying love, becomes tyrannical.

Thus, at Sinai the children of Ishmael and Esau were not yet prepared to receive the Torah. But their time would come, and come it did. Maimonides writes that by the mysterious ways of Divine Providence, Christianity and Islam helped pave the way for the Messianic age by acquainting the world with the principle of Messiah, the Torah and mitzvot. As time would pass their beliefs would continue to refine and mature.

In the centuries that followed Esau and Ishmael’s descendants would go through their growing pains in learning how to balance religious beliefs and daily life. This would not be an easy process; history is witness to the devastation and bloodshed wreaked by this journey. But slowly, slowly, Sinai would seep into the fibers of all people. The process concludes with the refinement of the last two powers, Edom (Esau) and Ishmael, which leads to the Messianic age – a world where there is no more destruction and terror and all children of Abraham serve the One G-d of Abraham in peace and harmony.

After years of tyranny the Western/Christian world has finally bred countries like America that champion the fundamental principles of Sinai: All people are created equal with inalienable rights and freedoms. The children of Esau have come to embrace the teachings of Abraham, formalized at Sinai.

The time has come for the children of Ishmael to do the same. We need to look at the education system, the curricula that Muslim children are being taught, and analyze it with the same rigor that we do in the media with far more superficial issues.

The Middle East is a breeding ground – a platform – for terrorism, for genocide (I don’t even have the right word for it). The schools are educating the children with certain ideas that are allowing for mass terror as a viable option to be exercised – or tolerated – in order to advance a cause. That simply is unacceptable.

The time has come to finally call them on it.

And this may be the ultimate reason why we don’t hear outrage: It’s just simply too unsettling to realize that we are dealing with a confrontation with 1 billion Muslims. A clash of civilizations is the last thing that people want to hear about.

However there may be no choice. Just as over a billion Christians were tamed, the same goes for the Muslims. Humanity must live in a civilized way. Especially people claiming religious beliefs must comply with G-d’s universal laws.

I understand the risk of interfering in the sovereignty of another country’s education system. Yet, we must approach this with pure intentions, infused with humility, demanding of ourselves the same standards we expect of others. Then we have a right to demand of ourselves and others to live up to the standards that Abraham taught all his children and all of civilization.

America today plays a special role in this work. The foundations of this country are built on absolute principles of faith and trust in G-d. This is not just a country of economic opportunity. The success of corporate America and unprecedented prosperity is a result of an unwavering mission statement: All equal, in G-d we trust, diversity and individual, e pluribus unum — under one G-d.

This country must align itself with its mission – the business of this nation must reconnect to its higher calling. Then and only then does this country earn the right to hold itself up as an example to the world. Simply being a nation of great wealth and power does not by any means give it the moral high ground. Other nations, religions and peoples have much longer traditions and histories than the relatively new world of America. But America can demonstrate something unique to the world. As a country, it can rise above our own national issues and serve as a beacon of light teaching the world the universal principles of all humankind – the principle upon which this nation was founded – how to live in peace with G-d.

3336 years ago the children of Esau and Ishmael rejected the Torah. Perhaps G-d could not impose it on them. But we can.

Today we must call on them, and insist, that they finally accept what they rejected then – that they finally accept the Torah in its entirety.

After all we have endured in the last three millennia, and with the current state of atrocity in the Middle East, we can appreciate the need for all nations to embrace the mandate given to us at Sinai.

So, 3336 years later how far are we from Sinai? On one hand it seems quite far, but on the other Sinai may be just around the corner. It’s up to us to determine which one it will be.

Is there a more powerful challenge to us as we approach Sinai?

This is the call of the hour. The call of Sinai. The call that sounded 3336 years ago and resonated around the globe and throughout history. This call is still reverberating today, waiting for our response.

As we read this week about the story of Sinai, when we relive the revelation at Sinai, this may be the best time to demand accountability of the Arab/Muslim world for their actions, and to call the rest of the world to demand a response.

Just like there is a thin line between comedy and tragedy, there is a thin line between genius and madness, between faith and heresy and between beauty and beast.

At Sinai we were given beauty — a formula to eloquently bridge heaven and earth. When displaced and distorted the beauty of faith can become a savage beast, killing everything in its path.

Islam stands today at a crossroads: Will it embrace the beauty or the beast?


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9 years ago

Brilliant spiritual and historical prophetic analysis.
Rabbi Gabriel Cousens MD

9 years ago

Concordo con Rabbi Gabriel: analisi profetica e di soluzione. Grazie Anna

Sue Zimmerman
9 years ago

Educating Moslems to become terrorists is a frightful problem and in our own state owned schools in US, in England and Australia that I know of we also have a problem, where immorality is being taught to children through explicit sex ed programs. We need to rid the world of both aberrations before this war against G-d is won.

7 years ago

Here’s what I wonder.
All those Toyota SUV, how many were bought, through what dealership, who brokered the fleet deal, the roadside assist, warranty servicing. And the commission for the sale who recieved it. Does Rumsfeld sell them bullets?

When does twitter. Become complicit in aiding terrorist activities ? Did that in 1856 that would be treason. Oh. It still is. And I want the upgrade the premium Facebook whatever the cost. I want to post my vids burning man in cage. Also beheadings with little knife, but ban breast feeding vids and I want complain Kurdish women vid of woman shoot us. If we are killed. BY woman Allah refuse martyrdom. It’s the truth. Jihad is not an internal struggle of morality, it’s full on war. So. When will you buy this oil we have stolen? Oh you paid months ago . Good. We see you have no scruples. At least I believe the lies they tell me. You trade with the enemy. What is with that.

Who markets this stuff? The flag is badly cropped and fixes to like a sprite path or something? Very creepy. New cars, 2 megapixel DVD camcorder. Put the camera on a crate. It’s designed that way.

Facebook. Mark zuckerburg. And nobody thinks of how YouTube could sensor it. Nobody has recieved a notice to sue. No one in the think tank thought, after hackysack, after afol evening, at drinks on jeans and suit jacket week. Is it a free speech political correct thing? It’s google. Shares are over 600 each. Is that why alphabet was set up? Who sets a parent company to oversee the flagship company? I cannot watch a racy band clip without signing in. And pretending I’m legal to watch. I’ve been arrested for way less. Anonymous hacked their accounts once. Yawn. Send a message. Hack their accounts. Embezzle their cash. That would be illegal. Cant freeze their assets because they are solvent. Can’t spare any drones? Can’t infiltrate and poison their dinner?

7 years ago

They must service the needs of others sleazy interests. thugs for hire. They turned up as snowden and assange leaked all that material. Did they? Take the heat off the Russians and Americans plunder of syria. Cars and guns supplied, do whatever you want. Just a guess

5 months ago

Terrorism works because:
Governments are not focused on their people’s needs, culture and well being.
Individuals focus on their own needs.
The majority of the world worships the “money g-d”
Too many people are divided in their mind- not knowing what is the right path for humanity and have their feet in two camps. That is, they try to do what they know is right but are lead by minorities wanting to appease these minorities knowing what minorities want is wrong or immoral.
Terrorism costs very little in terms of armourment; a knife is more damaging than a nuclear weapon threat.
Religion is clearly not following the correct teaching and allowing minority groups infiltration by abandoning the truth for minority desires.
Even terrorists are worshipping the same Money G-d and will all be corrupted.
Separate from the above. Know the truth of Torah.

5 months ago

Beauty and the Beast …. I agree , it’s up to us to set the standard of Truth in this world. Set the boundary and demand accountability. I assume if the answer is no, it’s up to us to follow the Torah guidelines as to how to eliminate the evil. Period. It’s in our hands. “ why are you looking to Me???? Go forth ……”

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