To reach someone else, usually you have to reach out of yourself.
Jacob sends peace ambassadors to his brother Esau. They report that Esau is on a war march, four hundred warriors strong. Jacob girds for battle, devotes in prayer, and bestows gifts upon Esau. Wrestling with an angel leaves Jacob limping and with a new name: Israel. Jacob – or Israel – and his brother Esau reconcile. Innocence is violated by evil. Two tribes, Simeon and Levi, uproot the evil in its entirety. Rachel gives birth to the youngest of the 12 tribes. Soon thereafter, Rachel passes away on the road near Bethlehem. Jacob returns to Hebron. His father Isaac ascends this physical world at the age of 180. Esau’s progeny and the kings of Edom conclude the narrative.