Would You Like to Judge Yourself?

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Know… before whom you are destined to give a judgment and accounting.

Ethics of the Fathers, 3:1

Said Rabbi Israel Baal Shem Tov: When a person comes before the supernal court to account for his sojourn on earth, he is first asked to voice his opinion on another life. “What do you think,” he is asked, “about one who has done so and so?” After he offers his verdict, it is demonstrated to him how these deeds and circumstances parallel those of his own life. Ultimately, it is the person himself who passes judgment on his own failings and achievements.[1]

This explains the peculiar wording of the above passage of the Ethics, “before whom you are destined to give a judgment and accounting.” Is not the verdict handed down after the cross-examination of the defendant? So should not the “judgment” follow the “accounting”? And why are you destined to “give judgment” as opposed to being judged? But no judgment is ever passed on a person from above. Only after he has himself ruled on any given deed does the heavenly court make him account for a matching episode in his own life.

The same idea is also implicit in another passage in our chapter of the Ethics: “Retribution is extracted from a person, with his knowledge and without his knowledge.”[2] As a person knowingly expresses his opinion on a certain matter, he is unwittingly passing judgment on himself.

As a person knowingly expresses his opinion on a certain matter, he is unwittingly passing judgment on himself.

What we have here is a most profound insight into the specialty of the human soul. In all of creation, nothing is loftier than the “spark of G-dliness”[3] that is the soul of man. This is reflected in the fact that man has been given the power of choice—a power he shares only with the Creator Himself.

Free choice allows him to stumble and err, but it is also what makes his potential for good infinitely greater than G-d’s more spiritual creations.

So even when a soul comes to stand in judgment, implying that there are perhaps faults and failings in its past performance, no judge, be it the loftiest and most spiritual of heavenly beings, has any jurisdiction over its fate. The only power on earth or heaven that can judge man is man himself.

This is an excerpt from “Beyond the Letter of the Law” by Yanki Tauber published by The Meaningful Life Center.

[1]  Cf. Nathan’s admonishment of King David, Samuel II 12.

[2]  Ethics of the Fathers, 3:16

[3]  See 2nd chapter of Tanya


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Pessy Goldman
18 years ago

If we have a close relationship with others, children, spouses, close friends, or even ourselves, how do we approach them about actions they may be doing that affect the relationship? If a child is doing something wrong, is it not our obligation as parents to help them change their actions? Is there a difference if the harm done is physical or spiritual? What if one spouse differs from the other in what is right or wrong? How does one become accepting of the differences? Someone may be judgemental even towards themselves. If we judge ourselves harshly in this world, even if the task is to better ourselves, how will we not judge ourselves harshly above? How do we become more accepting of those close to us, I guess, is my main question.

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